When you're controlled your whole life, people.telling you what to do, what to say, when you can do it, what you are all about what about you is right and wrong... And then all of a sudden you're free... But you've grown up with all these mixed messages unsure about which is truly right & wrong. When it comes to others you are the go to girl. You have the best advice send theme in the best direction, have everyone elses best interest at heart (mostly)... Little girl close your eyes and see what you've become... you are your own worst enemy, and until you can see that you are stuck, in this same cycle, over, and over, and over.... No one can save you...